Emotional Whore / Intellectual Whore
Women who are whores are used by men for physical support. Men who are whores are used by women for emotional support. While female whores are publically deningrated and feel horrible, male whores generally are overlooked and tend to be some of the most otherwise-well-off individuals. Why is this?
In normal relationships, men lead women; it's genetic. Power in today's culture translates largely into subjugation of weak-willed women, vs. the respect, rightness, and authority vested in good guys by intelligent, powerful women. Because women routinely fail to see respect+authority as "power" and instead confuse subjugation and abuse with it, their internal attractiveness gauges routinely fail: They end up with dumb guys they neither respect, feel positive about, or willingly give any real authority to; instead, they end up emotionally, physically, and spiritually subjugated, leading to an atrophying of their very souls and potentials. Meanwhile, the insidiousness of this cycle is made apparent by the absolute fact that "good guys finish last". If the asshole *always* gets the girl, what's left for the good guy but an unfulfilled, unsatisfied existence? Soon, they either accept they like being a nice guy and expect the passive abuse they receive by being emotional whores, or they become assholes and start subjugating women.
Male emotional whores can NEVER EVER hook up w/ women who are subjugated, because they both give energy to people and like + like repel, like magnets. Instead, the only ones ATTRACTED To givers are abusers. Givers have to overcome and realize they may not be attracted to another giver, but GODDAMN they can be fucking happy with one another!
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Another angle.
That is an amazingly profound thought. I did discover there was an alternate ending. Generally speaking I am a nice guy. So, in order to get a nice girl I had to act like a disinterested, seemingly unattainable guy, who was in complete control of life. As soon as I could pull that off, I was married within a year. After I got married, I dropped the tough guy facade and we lived blissfully ever since. (Don't ask my wife what her version is please.)
forgot this bit.
Bu, naq V'z trggvat zneevrq va yrff guna 3 zbaguf! Jbbbub!
Naq zbivat gb Wncna va frcgrzore!